Tuesday 22 May 2007

THE TALE??

Okay i was supposed to post something yesterday but i was unable to get time.

First i will post the pic with the tattoo for Amit


I know its too small but yeah that is it.


Okay back to the tale... i got dumped!!!!!!!!! Ha ha ha ha in all my life i have never been dumped i have always had my friends say these things and i always thought it cant happen to me but well i was brought back to earth.

So he had been too busy for almost 3 weeks and then this time i am sited at Quality cuts i see him. No wait a minute i see them walking, holding hands laughing ha you should have seen my face.
Anyway it all started with a choco fudge with Pat and Ben (remember them?) so we decided to head to Quality cuts since they have Ben's favourite flavour. As we were sited talking about life and the day's happenings,Ben suddenly asks me about HIM so i go on and on about HIM, how far the relationship had gone and how we were ready to take it to the next level. The guys seemed amused and happy for me and then the conversation shifted to how all those dreams can crumble in one night but trust me i knew that mine would not go that lane. At that moment they walked in...... HIM and HER at first i could not believe what i was seeing, then i convinced my self that they are just friends, and then i got angry because he had refused to go to lunch with me with the excuse of being busy at work. Of course these 2 guys noticed my discomfort as i watched HIM & HER take the corner seats in the restaurant, then they asked me if i knew any of the 2 and what the problem was. I just kept quiet, picked up my phone and called HIM, when he answered he went like "Call me back in an hour am in a meeting", okay so all this time the being busy, the meetings at night, the workshops in Mbale had basically been about HER? Then i told my 2 friends that we had to go, they could not believe that i had moved from chatty to bitchy as we walked out HIM turned and looked at me then he looked at the guys i was with and then i saw him stand up heading for my direction. I wanted to run but i could not, then he held my hand and started explaining some shit i could not make out, this time Ben was right at my side telling him to leave me alone if that is what i wanted. Men have all sorts of drama then HIM suddenly turned everything on me asking me if i had replaced him with Ben and all that crap how he thought we were serious about the relationship and how he had believed me when i said we could have a family together. All this time i was looking at him in disbelieve i could not believe now the whole thing had turned against me. I had had enough of the drama i caught Ben's hand and we walked away and i did not look back. He has been trying to call, parading at my work place but i shall not take any more drama in my life especially from a man who can not stand his ground and accept his mistake.. So that is the story of my life i wonder if Ben and Pat went home and discussed me and my stupid mouth that could not stop bragging about the perfect relationship that turned into disaster right in front of them...

So until tomorrow see ya i got to get my butt out of office.

Mood: Sleepy

Listening to: Not ready to make nice- Dixie chicks

Later on: Make coffee and watch friends

Quote:"Judge a tree from its fruit; not from the leaves" - Euripides, 484 - 406 BC

8 Comments:

Blogger Iwaya said...

I used not to believe such stories until I saw one happen right before my eyes. Believe me, if Ben and her and are good friends, they will not be laughing at you. I have since learned that this happens everyday in Kampala and sometimes being in a relationship can be like waiting in paused terror for this day. Sorry, as a wise man in some movie once said, this too will pass.

22 May 2007 at 08:23  
Blogger Cheri said...

Hokay,,,,now for that tattoo......Fudge? What do u wanna do to us?

Get loads of water cuz, fire is gonna start up in here!

23 May 2007 at 00:53  
Blogger The 27th Comrade said...

Oh, gack.
I stagger between laughing and crying. HIM is a loser, okay? You can't let HIM drag the rest of the minute down with his low quality. But then, I am one of those peeps who don't believe in love and all. So, for me, this should sound remote. Something I won't know. But I know how it must hurt.

Now, the snap. Oh ghastly gods! Woo-blinkin'-hoo! Rocketh!

@Cheri: Too late. The fire is already up in here. ;o)

23 May 2007 at 03:06  
Blogger Duksey said...

What a jerk!Such losers don't deserve the time of day.
With a tattoo like that,any man wld wanna replace him but be on your guard.

@27th;easy with the fire,you might mess this place with ashes.

23 May 2007 at 04:23  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

FIRST THINGS FIRST - Holey F*** - that tat is HOT HOT HOT - a girl with murderous intent I think. It may be small but it looks pretty lethal to me. I better go get something cold coz I is burning up ;o)

As for this bloke - well what a jerk, I swear guys today have no morals. Listen I think you're better off without this poor excuse for a man.

And I doubt Ben and Pat are laughin at you - if Ben stood up for you as he did he seems a good guy.

Chin up girl, and flash that tat, I swear you'll have a trail of boys following you.

23 May 2007 at 04:44  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Banange the drama in kampala never ends..
Nice tat u got

As for cheri how long have u postponed that tat proggie?

24 May 2007 at 00:49  
Blogger Savage said...

Is that ya picture with a tattoo?


Ur far better of without that lying loser.

24 May 2007 at 01:05  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Aiiii!! That tatoo is haaat! What was the rest of the story? Missed that Fudge, ahem! :-)

28 May 2007 at 12:50  

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