Thursday 28 June 2007

SLEEP BABY!!!




She is 26 yrs old, has no child and was married for 2 years when her husband told her he wanted a divorce. The first year of their marriage was spent apart due to both of them working in different cities, each weekend she took the train to go and see him and then she would get back to her apartment on Monday morning ready for work on Tuesday since Monday was her day off.

When the year ended her boss gave her a transfer to their office in the same city he was working. This news couldn’t have come at a better time. So she calls him to tell him the good news. When he picked up it did not seem like good news to him but anyway he made arrangements to pick her up and have all her things brought to his apartment. After only being there for 3 wks he tells her he wants a divorce after they got into a physical altercation. He told her that he promised himself that he would never lay his hands on his wife, and now that he has he cannot be married to her." Of course she was devastated, she thought THEY WERE HAPPY...THEY NEED COUNSELING NOT A DIVORCE!!!! and began to beg and plead with him to rethink this, and that they needed counselling not divorce. He said they did not need counselling; he was not going to change his mind. He then stayed with her for the next two weeks acting like he never told her he wanted a divorce.

One day while going through their cell phone bills she finds out that he had been talking to his ex-girlfriend on the phone for the last month. After she confronted him on that he then told her he had changed his mind he wanted a divorce (but as you can see from above, he never told her that he wanted to work things out) so she said fine and moved out. He then told her a week later that even though he wanted a divorce he still wanted to be with her, so basically he wanted her to go from being his wife to his girlfriend. she then cussed him out, but they continued to have sex ( stupidly she allowed) and she ended up pregnant. When she told him she was pregnant, he told her he to get an abortion (which was even more offending) and said what made her think he wanted to have a child with her he didn’t even want to be married to her. She had a miscarriage a week later, and she still hasn't heard from him. She filed for divorce last week and they have a divorce date on Aug 12. She did everything for this guy, LITERALLY.... he even admits it. But he says that he wasn’t happy with her, and that the reason he speaks to his ex is because she knows him better. She is beyond hurt, I she hasn’t had a healthy appetite since and has a REALLY hard time leaving her apartment. She get so depressed going grocery shopping, she has had food delivered to her everyday for the past 45 days. She can't concentrate at work, and wake up basically every morning crying. She feels so alone, depressed & helpless its ridiculous, and she is so ashamed of it because she knows that she has it good. No KIDS for one, and she wasn't married that long.... but it feels like she will never leave the house, that she will never find love again or even a support system. She has tried to hate him, but she love him so much.... she always asks herself why…Why...why every minute of every day. She even ask why in her sleep:

Then she hears her alarm go off and she sit up out of the bed and she is back to her sweet 24 with her dog windy lying down on the rug. Is it possible that in one night she had lived more than 3 years?


12 Comments:

Blogger The 27th Comrade said...

Ayayayaya.

I've loved this. Real. Good.

To her: don't get a guy - you will end up like that chic in the dream.
Or you already are, and dreaming about being 24 is the illusion. :o(

28 June 2007 at 07:53  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Nice but is it real?

2 July 2007 at 05:52  
Blogger Dennis D. Muhumuza said...

ah...but sometimes we have 2 let the good things go...she loves him but when he asked 4 a divorce and she moved out why did she continue having sex with him? and tell me: love. sometimes we have 2 snatch ourselves off the walls & give even the good things we soo love, else we court doom

2 July 2007 at 09:50  
Blogger Iwaya said...

I will comment after your next post!

3 July 2007 at 07:12  
Blogger Duksey said...

I hear mbu dreams mean the opposite.
Anyhow,this touched me so much and only confirms that sometimes even all the love you feel for someone cannot keep them with you.
The more you love them the further they drift.
Love is so unfair

4 July 2007 at 01:55  
Blogger Savvy Dreamer said...

wow...great post. i was feeling so sorry for the chick... then u said it was a dream. what exactly is the dream? waking up and being 24 or her life with that man?

10 July 2007 at 06:41  
Blogger GERALD said...

This is so scaring i hope is not true.

19 July 2007 at 01:38  
Blogger Degstar said...

4 real i know someone going through the same drama, except for the part about the baby.; they dont make love no more coz he wont touch her, he hates her dat much. she prays, Lord how she prays!

20 July 2007 at 06:25  
Blogger feather said...

those are dreams i love to wake up from

2 August 2007 at 01:52  
Blogger feather said...

funny wrote something similar just today

2 August 2007 at 01:52  
Blogger foxylamb said...

when i think of such things, i realise how scared i am of getting married. i dream of getting married, having babies in a perfect house. but man, wishes aint horses so beggars cant ride. holla back

23 January 2008 at 04:13  
Blogger foxylamb said...

cb, u cant blame her for sleeping with a man that she totally adores. maybe she thot he would have a change of heart or some thing, dont blame her holla back

23 January 2008 at 04:14  

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